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Initially I got fever and we thought that I am suffering from throat infection as I had consumed chilled butter milk. But when my fever continued then I got myself checked for corona and it came out to be positive. Had I got myself checked earlier then it would have been better to recover soon. Fever for so many days made my body more weak.
I would suggest everyone to immediately get checked for corona as soon as any single symptom is seen. Earlier diagnosis will make recovery faster n will save from making the case more serious.
There is no reason to fear from this disease. Start medicines prescribed by doctor n check oxygen regularly.
I pray to almighty to save everyone n normalise the circumstances.Yeh toh badi common problem hai. Ghar Ghar ki kahaani. Yeh achhi baat hai ki aap ka brother separate nahi hona chahta. Warna aaj kal toh ladke bhi biwi ko lekar alag hi rehna chahte hai.
Par aapki post se clear reason nahi samajh mein aa raha. Agar bariki se reason doondh kar aapki bhabhi ko samjhaya jaye ya fir jis karn se woh separate hona chahti hai usko solve kiya jaye. Kabhi kabhi hame saath mein rehne ke liye thodi qurbaani deni padti hai. Thoda compromise, thoda pyar, thoda darr….aapke case mein yeh sab kaise lagoo hoga woh aapko hi dekh a padega kyunki separate hone ke pichhe ka reason nahi pata hai.Oh dear Solace, aapne toh mere Dil ki baat kah di. Mujhe bhi bahut dukh hota hai jab bachche anaap shanaap khate hai, smoking karte hai, drinks lete hai, der se sona, der se uthna….
Yeh log apna jiwan barbaad kar rahe hai. Yeh sab inn materialistic chheejo mein khushi dhoond rahe hai. Yeh khushi tikati nahi.
Inhone subah jaldi uthkar track suit pehn kar running karne ka sukh experience kiya hi nahi toh ye kya jaane. Subah ki thandi thandi hawa, birds ki chirping n exercise kaise din bhar ke liye taro taza kar deta hai. Aur mera manana hai ki agar koi subah uth kar exercise, walk, running,etc ka schedule bana le toh woh apne aap buri aadato se dur hota jayega kyunki tab woh permanent happiness ko feel karega, apni healthy body ko feel karega.
Iss generation ko aise habits dalne ke liye parents ko mehnat karni padegi. Sirf kehne se nahi hota. Unko khud bhi karna hoga. “Walk the talk” batana hoga. Jab bachche parents ko karte dekhenge toh unpar alag asar hoga.Dear Ishu, it’s good to know the person before marriage. His mother must be saving the amount for future and rest of the amount must be used in monthly household expenses. The matter related to income of a man is very sensitive matter. If he is ready to take your responsibility then you need not worry. You yourself are also working. So I don’t think that there will be any problem regarding finances. You are financially independent so don’t bother much about the amount given by him to his mother. Money is secondary and understanding between both of you is primary. Don’t try to change him, if you are ready to accept him as it is then only proceed further. I don’t mean to accept bad habits as it is but what I mean is every person is different n thinks differently. However you can make him understand that investing in kitties is not safe n RD/FD is secure. Moreover you also need to understand his mother. Maybe she is saving for future. If really love him then don’t let finances come in between but if you don’t love him n you are looking at him like any other male as your future husband then you should not proceed further if you don’t like the proposition n the way he is leading his life.
Personally I think you should see as to how he is as a human being because rest of the things can be easily taken care of as you both will be working and after marriage you both will be we and not you n him.I know not much about market trends and economy but still I believe that we should keep patience and help each other specially the down-trodden class. We have realised that life can very well be led in minimal resources so we should not act in any haste. Wait n watch n act with prudence and extend helping hand to the needy. Everything will fall in line automatically.
Dear Shaina, the act of yours committed in class 2nd ,i.e., might be at the age of 6 or 7 years, can’t be termed as stealing chalk. Although if our child would do something like this then we will certainly make him/her understand that never take anything without permission but in the heart of our heart we will know that this act was just out of curiosity. You were curious at that time to know how it feels like to hold such colourful chalk and write with it. At this point of time when you have grown up, you should not bother yourself. Rather your should understand the mentality of child.
You are right, dear solace. It has been becoming very difficult to raise a child. Children have become very demanding and aggressive. They copy their friends. We as a parent need to make them understand that every family, every human being are different. One more aspect is that parents want their child to study in a high profile school, no matter whether they can afford it or not. They go out of way to pay their fees. But they don’t understand that besides fee, there are lot many things which will require money and secondly, the fellow students will come from well off families and child would imitate them. So parents should always admit their child in a school which is easily affordable in all respects. A child is very tender and innocent. Parents should lovingly make them understand the ways of life and mind it, our own ways of life should not be contrary to what we say.
Question – Gurudev, what should be the way one should look at life in general?
Gurudev(Sri Sri Ravishankar) – Life is 80{551c903f756d5bf12b7d58e2eb1e8b74af35058efa7a05d3e7b41e9147979503} joy and 20{551c903f756d5bf12b7d58e2eb1e8b74af35058efa7a05d3e7b41e9147979503} misery. But you hold on to the 20{551c903f756d5bf12b7d58e2eb1e8b74af35058efa7a05d3e7b41e9147979503} and make it 200{551c903f756d5bf12b7d58e2eb1e8b74af35058efa7a05d3e7b41e9147979503}. It is not a conscious act, it just happens. Living in the moment with joy, alertness, awareness and compassion is enlightenment.
First love yourself. Everybody is different. God has not made even two persons alike. If others have some qualities then you also must have some qualities which you are over looking due to your present attitude. Excess of everything is bad. Some people think so high of themselves n are arrogant n on the other side you are feeling miserable as good for nothing. It’s not right at all. Come on. It’s just not possible that you don’t have any talent. Everybody has one or the other. It’s just that you are unable to see due to your miserable feelings. Leave company of persons who let you feel miserable. Do such things in life which give you happiness.
Everybody has weaknesses. You are not alone. But some manages to hide their weaknesses n you are punishing yourself with such feeling. Let it be, dost. Don’t worry about what people says. You know, “kuchh toh log kahenge logo ka kaam hai kehna….” So be a good chal, leave such feelings aside, boost up your spirit high n start afresh. Love yourself. You are the best creature of God. He will feel bad that you are not respecting His creature.
I am damn sure that you must be having lots of qualities but it’s shielded. You are infact not treating your qualities as qualities but you think very high of qualities of others. Just find out. You will be having many n work on them. Don’t waste your time to imbibe qualities of others rather work on your qualities and become like a star.
Hope you will not punish yourself with such feelings anymore. Yessss, begin with high spirit n love yourself.1. गुस्सा आने पर दस तक गिनती करें
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2. तुरन्त एक गिलास पानी पिएं
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3. थोड़ी देर के लिए उस जगह से कहीं चले जाएंजिस दिन आप ये दिल से समझ लेंगे कि हर व्यक्ति अलग होता है और हर व्यक्ति का हर परस्थिति में नजरिया अलग होता है उस दिन से आप को यूं हर बात पर गुस्सा नहीं आयेगा। हम लोग हर एक से उम्मीद करते है कि वो भी हमारी ही तरह सोचे जो कि मुमकिन नहीं। समाज में हर कोई अलग है। हमे यह समझना होगा और हर एक का मानसिक स्तर भी अलग होता है।
I am not into this field but want to say that you are right. Media stream is very wide n has broad spectrum. Journalism has many branches like travel journalism, political journalism, commercial (financial) journalism, criminal n legal journalism. Above all criminal n legal journalism has the lion’s share. It’s not an easier job. You need to study hard, prepare yourself everyday, should have vast knowledge about all the subjects. I think you should basically acquire bachelor’s degree in mass communication and while pursuing the course you can find out your actual interest in the specific field of journalism. If you want to do financial/ commercial journalism then you should pursue B.com n then acquire diploma in journalism. In journalism, degrees do not matter a lot. You should first enter in this field n then your experience will take you further. You should simultaneously improve your speaking n writing capabilities.
First help yourself. Accept yourself. Don’t be in guilt. It’s natural. God has made different types of people. Nothing wrong in it. Give your parents some time to understand and accept this. If your feelings remain same and you marry then you will be ruining life of yourself, your partner and ofcourse, of family members of both sides. Please don’t do this in any circumstances. The girl will come with lots of dreams about new married life and her partner, which will be shattered after knowing the truth. Instead of coming under pressure, make efforts to convince your parents.
Aapko apne dost ko vishvas mein lekar uss se poochhna padega tabhi aap uski help kar paoge. Aap usse iss website ke baare mein bata sakte hai taki woh apni identity bataye bina apni problem yahan post kare. Ho sakta hai koi solution nikal aaye. Nayi shaadi mein turant problem solve kar lena achha hai iss se pehle ki zakhm nasur na ban jaaye
Radhey ji, it’s good that you are able to reconise your problem. Half of the problem is solved. Rest half will be done with your strong will power. I think you should purchase one good pen yourself everyday. After sometime you will have many pens of your choice and that would make your desire to steal pen fade away automatically. You know when you don’t have something then your heart long for that thing but as soon as you get it, the fascination goes away. I think it will certainly help you.
