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Dear Friend as the government has increased the age of marriage for girls to 21 now this problem should not arise as by that age the girls will be more sensible.
Namita ji aaj k time me paisa bahut baddi cheej hai. Aapka paise ki taraf attract hona koyi galat nahi hai par iska matlab ye bhi nikalta hai ki aap us ladke ki taraf attracted ho pyar vyar nahi hai.
Jara socho agar kal ko tumhare boyfriend ne car le li phir thik hai? Agar tumhare boss k paas kal ko paisa na raha to kya tum khush rahogi?
Aaj boss se shadi karli or kal ko boy friend ne bhi car le li phir?
Actually ye sab ek mind set hai or iski priority aapko hi decide karni hai. Paisa to aata jata rehta hai. Agar aapki kismat me hua to aapka boyfriend ya aap khud bhi kama loge or agar kismat me sukh nahi hua to jo hai vo bhi nahi rahega.
Boss se shadi karke bhi ye na ho ki aap apne boy friend ki taraf attracted raho or paise boss ka or friendship us se to kal ko problem hi hogi.
Aap isi site k family issues or dusre forum paddlo unme aise problems log face kar rahe hai.Dheeraj ji sidhi baat no bakwas. Chiku g ne bilkul thik kaha hai. Agar tum biwi se pyar karte ho or do mahine pehle agar us se baat huyi hai to mumkin hai vo maan jaye. Us se contact karo jaise bhi ho sake phir milo ya phone par baat karo. Mafi maango or manao.
Ek baat dhayan rakhna ab tumhara EGO beech me nahi aana chahiye. Ho sakta hai baar baar mafi maangni pade or manana padde par lage raho kyuki ek baar dil tutne k baad dobara bharosa karna bahut mushkil hota hai isliye uska vishwas jitane or usse barkrar rakhne k koshish karo.
Best of luck.
Dear Friend
Sorry but I dn’t agree with what namita said. I feel that she will not dare to marry you and that is why she is searching a girl for you.
If you have been just friends, for more than a year than definitely you both should restrict your relationship as friends and always meet in presence of others. Never meet in lonely place.
Just search a girl who is beautiful and get married. Maintain distance with this lady and meet only in presence of family. Don’t give yourself any chance to commit mistake again, which may ruin your life. Make a firm decision to distance yourself from her so that no one ever gets chance to doubt you.Dear Bro
First of all when u get married tell the girl and her parents in presence of mediators very clearly that you would not live separately and in case your wud be wife stated so u wud break up the relation.
Regarding your bhabhi I think u or some one close to her need to ask her about the reason of asking separation. If she honestly tells and you can address her grievance than everything will be fine but in case her demand is just foor desire then your family needs to treat her strictly by conveying her parents that whatever she is asking is not going to happen.
By the way the cruel truth is that every family gets separated one or the other day and what matters is not separation but relationship. I have seen families where boys living separate from their parents do take proper care by visiting them twice a day. So, If your family agrees you can either make two portions or ur brother may shift to other or rented house. Since I don’t know your financial position and other details I can’t comment precisely.
Your family can also tell her in strict sense that if she gets separated they will not get any money from your father and they need to manage on their own.The best part of this policy is that it will provide practical exposure to students which will help the poor is settling down earlier even if they are not able to complete their graduation.
In addition to above we may be required to provide sell goods or services on credit due to non-availability of cash with our customers/ suppliers and in that case the bank funding may be helpful to us. After few months when the covid impact will be over or with the availability of vaccine the things will start moving on towards normalcy so we must take advantage of bank funding as per government schemes. As the government has made provision for repayment of covid funding in installments and that too with moratorium we must avail them but keeping in view our capacity to repay.
